“Two are better than one… if either of them falls down, one can help the other up.” — Ecclesiastes 4:9-10
In the journey of caregiving, there are days when the path feels a little too steep to climb alone. I’ve been there—standing in a kitchen in the middle of the night, wondering who to call and where to turn.
While I focus on the “bones” of your home here at StayPutGuide, there are wonderful organizations across our beautiful state of Missouri dedicated to the heart, health, and soul of our seniors. I’ve gathered these resources here so you have a “firm foundation” of support.
1. The Area Agencies on Aging (AAA)
These are your primary “boots on the ground.” They provide everything from home-delivered meals to help with insurance and caregiver support groups.
- Central Missouri Area Agency on Aging (CMAAA): Serving 19 counties, including Boone, Cole, and Callaway.
- Phone: (573) 443-5823 or (800) 369-5211
- Website: cmaaa.net
- Mid-America Regional Council (MARC): Serving the Kansas City area.
- Phone: (816) 421-4980
- Missouri Department of Health and Senior Services (DHSS):
- Elderly Abuse & Neglect Hotline: (800) 392-0210 (Available 24/7)
2. Home Safety & Modification Assistance
If the cost of a ramp or a bathroom remodel feels out of reach, these programs may be able to offer a hand up:
- Missouri Assistive Technology (MoAT): They offer equipment recycling and low-interest loans for home modifications.
- Website: at.mo.gov
- Missouri Housing Development Commission (MHDC): Check for their “Heathers’ Home” or home repair grants for seniors.
- Website: mhdc.com
3. Caregiver Support & Respite
You cannot pour from an empty cup. If you need a moment to breathe, reach out here:
- Alzheimer’s Association (Greater Missouri Chapter): * 24/7 Helpline: (800) 272-3900
- Missouri Caregiver Support Line: Hosted by the DHSS to help you find local respite care.
- Phone: (800) 392-0210
4. Professional Caregiving Services
If you find that the IADLs (meal prep/cleaning) or ADLs (bathing/grooming) have become more than you can handle safely, professional caregiving can be a grace. As a Field Supervisor, I recommend looking for agencies that are DHSS Licensed and Bonded.
In Central Missouri, there are several wonderful “Loan Closets” where the community gathers up crutches, walkers, and wheelchairs to share with those in need. Think of these as a “Lending Library” for health—a place where the burden of cost is lifted so you can focus on the healing.
Here is a list of trusted locations in our area where you can borrow or receive donated equipment at little to no cost.
1. Services for Independent Living (SIL) – Columbia
SIL is a cornerstone for families in Mid-Missouri. Their Durable Medical Equipment (DME) Recycling Program accepts gently used items and provides them for free to individuals with unmet needs in their service area.
- What they offer: Walkers, wheelchairs, shower benches, and more.
- Location: 1401 Hathman Place, Columbia, MO 65201
- Phone: (573) 874-1646
- Note: They recommend calling first to check availability, as their inventory changes daily.
2. HHC Community Outreach – Jefferson City
This organization works closely with local hospitals and therapists to identify people who need help staying independent. They provide equipment at no cost thanks to community donations.
- What they offer: Hospital beds, bedside toilets, wheelchairs, and shower benches.
- Contact: Visit homemakerhealth.org to reach out.
3. SADI (SEMO Alliance for Disability Independence)
While located a bit further south, SADI runs a dedicated Equipment Loan Closet. All items are examined, cleaned, and sanitized before being loaned out free of charge.
- What they offer: Wheelchairs, walkers, canes, and bath chairs.
- Phone: (573) 651-6464
- Location: 755 S Kingshighway, Cape Girardeau, MO (They serve a broad region, so it’s worth a call if you are in the southern parts of Central MO).
4. Missouri Assistive Technology (MoAT)
MoAT acts as a statewide bridge. They don’t just loan equipment; they help you find funding and low-interest loans if you need something permanent like a ramp or a specialized lift.
- Website: at.mo.gov
- Phone: (816) 655-6700
A “Plumber’s Advice” on Borrowed Gear
When you pick up a piece of borrowed equipment, treat it like a used car—give it a “safety inspection” before its first trip:
- Check the Rubber: Look at the tips of walkers and canes. If the rubber is cracked or worn smooth, it won’t grip the floor. You can buy replacement tips for a few dollars at any drugstore.
- Tighten the Bolts: On wheelchairs and walkers, make sure no screws have rattled loose.
- Sanitize: Even though these closets clean their gear, I always recommend giving it one more wipe with a disinfectant before bringing it into your sanctuary.
A Final Word of Encouragement
Asking for help is not a sign of weakness; it is a sign of wisdom. It means you love your family enough to ensure they have the very best care possible.
If you call one of these numbers and aren’t sure what to say, just start with: “I am caring for a loved one, and I need some guidance.” They will take it from there.
Is there a specific resource you’ve found helpful in your own journey that I should add to this list? Leave a comment below and let’s help one another up.